rw-Eli update

• 11-05-2009 9:40 AM

  rwbeagles Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW, TX Posts 18,883 Points 2,200

  rw-Eli update Reply Contact well I went down and picked up his report because apparently Hospital Mail is THE slowest form of mail on EARTH. And well, it's disheartening and a bit overwhelming to say the least. We'd expected either but not both..but both is what we got. ADHD and Asperger's for the little guy. I am stil letting it sink in. Spoke to most of the family last night about things in the report we've all been doing wrong that we should correct and made a few appts for him to get the process started. We are looking into meds for the ADHD because honestly that has been getting steadily worse as school has gotten more challenging. The school will be getting a copy after we speak to the doc on Monday and we'll start the onerous process of "officially" getting him his help he's entitled to for school. Much information in the report, I think she nailed it with many things she observed and tested and there's nothing in there I'd really argue with. I'm edging towards acceptance at this point because he's just frustrated and struggling and we all can help him...so we need to. So that's where we are now...and much as I still mainly dislike She Who Must Be Obeyed she did nudge us to get him looked at and as a result I know more about my son now and how challenging life has been for him with us all not knowing what was going on... onwards! Gina H. aka "Tellingmewhattodoperson" Happy St. Paddy's Day, all! Cleo's Blog: lionessrampantblog.blogspot.com/ My blog: ryngwrayth.blogspot.com/

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• 11-05-2009 9:48 AM

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  sharismom Joined on 09-10-2007 mid-Michigan Posts 3,787 Points 30	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Gina, I admire your strength and willingness to keep all options open.  You're an outstanding parent! Tina
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• 11-05-2009 10:00 AM

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  mrstjohnson Joined on 07-13-2006 Sterling Heights, MI Posts 3,880 Points 105	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Gina I am sorry that the report was more than you anticipated, but I wish you strength and patience dealing with the challenges laid in front of you.  Lisa - Charlie & Riley's Mommy A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself. -Josh Billings Thanks for the siggy Candace!!!
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• 11-05-2009 10:04 AM

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  iluvjamison Joined on 09-17-2007 NJ Posts 1,911 Points 5	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Awww poor kid.  At least now you know and like you said, can move forward from here.   Deb W. My Beagle Boy - Jamison
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• 11-05-2009 11:30 AM

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  cakana Joined on 09-10-2007 Cathy in Northern CA Posts 10,278 Points 435	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact sharismom: Gina, I admire your strength and willingness to keep all options open.  You're an outstanding parent! I couldn't agree more. I know that there's no one more capable of dealing with the challenges Eli will face than you are. ~ Cathy ~
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• 11-05-2009 11:56 AM

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  jenn52 Joined on 08-11-2007 Ventura County, CA Posts 557 Points 130

  Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Sorry to hear about this.  But the more you know the better off you can deal with everything.  One thing I would suggest, especially with the ADHD, I know awhile back you had a post about his diet, I would definitely suggest looking into how changing his diet could help with the ADHD.  My doctor feels a lot of adhd of is diet and food allergy related.  Dairy, sugars, grains and processed foods can cause a lot of issues if you are sensitive or allergic and really mess with your blood sugar stability.  Just thought I'd suggest it if someone else hasn't already.

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• 11-05-2009 11:59 AM

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  calliecritturs Joined on 09-10-2007 Central Florida Posts 11,977 Points 3,770

  Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Gina -- you're doing everything as right as possible and I  SO applaud your outlook.  Particularly your attitude towards his teacher -- your willingness to give her credit for nudging you in the right direction will help keep that balance. I've got green tea, decaf Constant Comment, chamomile, and decaf Folgers in my desk.  I *DO* have an extra nice mug -- I know caffeine would be more your thing, but you'll have to accept my humble offering of a "nice cup of tea in a pretty mug" -- according to my Gram (God rest her soul) it *would* make anything difficult just a bit more manageable. So, if nothing more have a cuppa cyber tea my friend and at least be a bit amused, if not fully refreshed.  (I do have some Oreos tho -- and I'll pass that package along too -- it's not Tasty Kake but those weren't fresh last week and the Oreos were, so that's what I've got!!) *hugs* "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." Helen Keller

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• 11-05-2009 12:57 PM

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  TheDogHouseBCMPD Joined on 11-06-2007 Maryland Posts 2,102 Points 290	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact  Well, atleast now that you know you can make a plan.  (((hugs))) I know you and your family will do the best for him. ~Steph "Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein
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• 11-05-2009 3:30 PM

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  janobonano Joined on 09-10-2007 northern WI Posts 8,641 Points 1,425

  Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact rwbeagles: Much information in the report, I think she nailed it with many things she observed and tested and there's nothing in there I'd really argue with. I'm edging towards acceptance at this point because he's just frustrated and struggling and we all can help him...so we need to.   It's reassuring that you agree with the report, and now he can get the extra help he needs.

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• 11-05-2009 7:01 PM

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  huskymom Joined on 09-10-2007 Dryden ON Posts 7,946 Points 605	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact  ((((hugs))))  Now you can move on, like everyone else has said.  It's alot to deal with, and I doubt you'll forget, we're here for you should you need us. Jezabel
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• 11-05-2009 9:01 PM

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  erica1989 Joined on 02-21-2007 Clearwater, Florida Posts 4,726 Points 505	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact My coworkers son has asbergers, and while it's not always easy - now you know how to help him. (((hugs))) you'll be just fine.
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• 11-05-2009 9:17 PM

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  BEVOLASVEGAS Joined on 07-11-2006 Texas Posts 9,274 Points 990	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Gina, I know that this wasn't the diagnosis that you had hoped for, but I know that you & your DH are the best people to deal with these issues. Amanda Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to use sarcasm. Seize hold of the moment and begin the journey, wherever you are on the path, however many times you have faltered, begin again. - Gurumayi Chidvilasananda
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• 11-06-2009 12:07 AM

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  thedoc617 Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW- Texas Posts 728 Points 55	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact  Gina, if you need any personal testimonials on the ADHD meds, let me know. I was diagnosed at the age of 6 and was on a lot of meds until I was out of high school. It helped me so much on my schoolwork, once we found the right one. Laura "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened" ~Anatole France
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• 11-06-2009 8:43 AM

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  rwbeagles Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW, TX Posts 18,883 Points 2,200

  Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact Thanks guys for the support and offers of input. I will likely be here asking lots of questions, venting, and PMing folks from time to time. I am feeling better about it and more ready to deal at this point. I don't have to do this alone, which helps. My dh, his family, and mine are all standing behind me, and most importantly behind Eli, and that is very comforting. To know I have even more support here is wonderful. Thank you all! Gina H. aka "Tellingmewhattodoperson" Happy St. Paddy's Day, all! Cleo's Blog: lionessrampantblog.blogspot.com/ My blog: ryngwrayth.blogspot.com/

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• 11-06-2009 9:55 AM

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  l.michelle Joined on 06-15-2007 Ontario, Canada Posts 1,915 Points 20	Re: rw-Eli update Reply Contact *hugs*  But at least now you know, and can move on from here and figure things out!! I know you and your DH can push past and help Eli, he is very lucky to have parents like you!! Stay strong!
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