Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe

• 11-01-2009 2:38 PM

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  Chuffy Joined on 12-17-2006 UK Posts 7,886 Points 245

  Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact  If anyone can win her trust, you can.  Sounds like you made huge leaps already.  I just hope that she learns to trust someone again, so she can have a good, safe life.  I will keep checking for updates..... I got everything crossed for her. "Give a man a fire and he is warm for a day, but set fire to him and he is warm for the rest of his life." - Pratchett, "Jingo"

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• 11-01-2009 4:53 PM

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  Bruister Joined on 09-19-2009 British Columbia, Canada Posts 178 Points 35	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Great update and pictures... Say No To Breed Specific Legislation...
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• 11-01-2009 6:24 PM

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  CoBuHe Joined on 08-03-2007 Southeast Texas Posts 3,007 Points 90

  Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Another quick update this evening....went back to the shop, basically just to feed her.  But, also went through the process of trying to gain some more trust by feeding her in her presence while I hang and to feed her by hand.  I was even able to coax her (with food) into the shop...although she was very reluctant.  But, she's hungry too...so....Slight progress. I don't really think the mechanic went back up there...which makes me sad and angry all at the same time.  Apparently, I care more than he does.  Maybe I'm wrong....maybe he was up there when I wasn't.  I'll have DH take some more food to work in the morning....and I'll go again tomorrow evening. "No matter how little money and how few possessions you own, having a dog makes you rich." Louis Sabin ________________________ Barbara, Proudly owned by

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• 11-01-2009 6:29 PM

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  Jewlieee Joined on 03-23-2007 MI Posts 7,743 Points 4,510	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact You're doing great! Keep it up. You will prob be able to get her tomorrow or tues. Great pics too. She looks pretty skinny
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• 11-01-2009 6:56 PM

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  aerial1313 Joined on 02-12-2008 Atlanta, GA Posts 1,964 Points 95	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Barbara, I just read about this girl.  Wow, you are doing so well!  Keep it up, and I hope to see a "success!" post about her soon.  She is beautiful too! ~Heather~
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• 11-01-2009 10:45 PM

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  Bruister Joined on 09-19-2009 British Columbia, Canada Posts 178 Points 35

  Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact CoBuHe: Another quick update this evening ...  I was even able to coax her (with food) into the shop I don't really think the mechanic went back up there...which makes me sad and angry all at the same time.  Apparently, I care more than he does.  Maybe I'm wrong....maybe he was up there when I wasn't.    I'm not suggesting that you push things too quickly, but since you managed to coax her into your husband's shop today, you are not far from being able to put a leash on her.  Once you do that....I sure hope the mechanic understands what it takes to keep her safe, but I am thinking that he may not.  So I have one more suggestion:  do not be the person to hand the leash over to the mechanic, IF it is decided that she goes back to the mechanic. Further, do not make the connection in your space. Your space needs to remain a safe/neutral place.   Sending strong thoughts your way.... Say No To Breed Specific Legislation...

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• 11-02-2009 2:09 AM

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  lorib Joined on 09-10-2007 Posts 3,078 Points 0	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact No additional advice to add, but good luck!
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• 11-02-2009 6:35 AM

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  CoBuHe Joined on 08-03-2007 Southeast Texas Posts 3,007 Points 90

  Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Bruister: I have one more suggestion:  do not be the person to hand the leash over to the mechanic, IF it is decided that she goes back to the mechanic. Further, do not make the connection in your space. Your space needs to remain a safe/neutral place.    "If" is the big question in my mind right now.  If he in fact didn't even go to the shop yesterday; he doesn't deserve her.  Is it up to me to say who deserves a dog?  Probably not.  If I'm able to catch her when no one is around....might I remove her, and find a good home for her.  Maybe. Good suggestion about keeping myself and my space safe and neutral.  Thanks everyone for helping me through this, offering support and confidence.  I need you. And, Jackie...I may need to talk to you about the rescue organization you spoke to when you saved...ahem..."Tempest."  "No matter how little money and how few possessions you own, having a dog makes you rich." Louis Sabin ________________________ Barbara, Proudly owned by

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• 11-02-2009 6:49 AM

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  JackieG Joined on 04-15-2008 Central Texas Posts 7,200 Points 705	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact CoBuHe: And, Jackie...I may need to talk to you about the rescue organization you spoke to when you saved...ahem..."Tempest."   Let me know.  I'll be happy to put you in touch with them.
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• 11-02-2009 9:26 AM

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  CoBuHe Joined on 08-03-2007 Southeast Texas Posts 3,007 Points 90

  Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Update: DH just called to say that one of the other mechanics across the way said she was caught last night and is now in their office.  If it was the owner/mechanic, why didn't he take her home?  So many questions.... DH is going to question him when he sees him this morning....he's not in yet. "No matter how little money and how few possessions you own, having a dog makes you rich." Louis Sabin ________________________ Barbara, Proudly owned by

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• 11-02-2009 9:36 AM

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  JackieG Joined on 04-15-2008 Central Texas Posts 7,200 Points 705	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact I'm wondering if he got her thinking she would make a good guard dog for the shop?  :(  I hope your DH can get the story out of the mechanic today.
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• 11-02-2009 10:37 AM

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  CoBuHe Joined on 08-03-2007 Southeast Texas Posts 3,007 Points 90

  Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Apparently, someone sleeps in that office so she wasn't alone there...so thats good (I hope).  DH still hasn't spoken to the mechanic yet....but someone took her out ON A LEASH this morning; and he said she looked ok...which makes me feel slightly better.  He told that person that I was very concerned about her well being...and that I know a lot of people that could help her if they want my help.    "No matter how little money and how few possessions you own, having a dog makes you rich." Louis Sabin ________________________ Barbara, Proudly owned by

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• 11-02-2009 1:09 PM

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  shadowsgin Joined on 03-06-2007 N.W. Arkansas Posts 2,890 Points 510	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Just catching the story about "Tempest".  She is really pretty.  Hot Shot was very timid and scared when we got him.  I think you have done all the right things to win her trust.  I am hoping  this man has his heart in the right place and he can win her trust or give her up to someone that can.
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• 11-02-2009 5:59 PM

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  Bruister Joined on 09-19-2009 British Columbia, Canada Posts 178 Points 35	Re: Now Please - Trying to coax a very fearful dog - CoBuHe Reply Contact Great to hear she's not awol anymore and glad to hear they are using a leash.  Maybe they'll let you give them so tips on how to keep her safe.  Good on you, CoBuHe...she had positive experiences with you that she will remember.  Say No To Breed Specific Legislation...
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